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I like that. Today, we are talking all about The Psychology of Money by Morgan Housel. Excellent book.
It's been super popular and with good reason. It's not your typical finance book. Yeah.
Like this book isn't about, you know, all those complicated formulas or stock picks. Right. It's really about the why.
Yeah. Behind our money choices, right? It's the psychology, often hidden, that's really driving, you know, both our wins and ... Absolutely. Let's be honest.
Maybe some of our not-so-great financial moments. Oh, yeah. The facepalm moments.
Yeah. What's really fascinating is that Housel, he really acknowledges the fact that like most of us, we don't get taught this stuff. Right.
Traditional financial advice, it tends to zero in so much on just the numbers. Yeah. But what this book does is it dives into like how our upbringing, our earliest experiences with money, those shape our entire worldview, our money mindset, far more than we even realize.
Right. And he gives a number and it's pretty startling. Yeah.
He says 80% of our financial outlook, it's based on personal experience. Yeah. Not all that, you know, the objective data that's out there.
Wow. That's huge. It is huge.
So even if we think we're being irrational, there's a lot going on under the surface. Yeah. Absolutely.
And that leads to all sorts of biases. You know, the mental shortcuts that our brains love to take. But they don't always work in our best interest financially.
Yeah. For instance, you think of somebody who grew up during a recession, right? Yeah. They might be overly cautious even when times are good, the economy's booming.
Or think about somebody who just got super lucky on a risky investment. Oh, yeah. They may end up taking bigger and bigger gambles, assuming that that first success was all skill.
Like they can repeat it. Exactly. Yeah.
And it's like our brains, they're trying to protect us in a way. But it's those very protection mechanisms that sometimes backfire when it comes to money. Right.
Housel, he talks about how strong emotions are when we're making financial decisions. I mean- We can all relate to that. Oh, big time.
Fear and greed, especially, can really throw a wrench in things. Think about like panic selling. When the stock market dips.
Oh, yeah. That's pure fear taking the wheel or like jumping into some hot stock tip you heard without even doing your homework. Oh, been there.
Right. Yeah. Often that's greed.
We've all been there. Oh, yeah. And the fallout can be pretty rough.
And it's not always those big dramatic things. It can be everyday choices. Maybe you're feeling stressed and suddenly that pricey takeout just seems like the only answer.
Oh, yeah. Self-soothing with the credit card. Exactly.
And those little splurges, they add up. Or help you. They do.
And it's often fueled by emotions we don't even realize we're having in the moment. Totally subconscious. That's why Halsall, he highlights how important it is to recognize those patterns.
You know, the emotional triggers that can sabotage our financial goals. You know, having a budget or like talking with a financial advisor. Those are good guardrails, but it all begins with knowing yourself.
Self-awareness. Yeah. Now, let's talk about something that's absolutely crucial to his message and that is saving.
Yes. He has this line. I love it.
He says, building wealth has little to do with your income or investment returns and lots to do with your savings rate. It's deceptively simple, but it's profound. It really is.
And what's brilliant about how he puts it is he emphasizes saving as a habit, not just some target number. It's about that consistency. Setting aside money, even if it's a small amount and making it a non-negotiable part of your routine.
Like brushing your teeth, but for your money. Exactly. Financial hygiene.
And he makes such a strong point that even if you have a modest income, you can build some serious wealth over time if you're disciplined about saving. Especially over the long term. Especially over the long term.
That's where the magic of compounding kicks in. And Housel, he really breaks it down in a way that's easy to grasp. It is.
It's that snowball rolling down the hill idea. Start small, but then it just picks up speed and grows exponentially. Exactly.
And he gives a great simple example to illustrate it. If you invest just $100 a month, starting at age 20, you're earning an average 7% return annually. By the time you hit 65, you're looking at over $350,000.
That is the power of time and consistency. That's amazing. And then he says something else.
He argues that good investing isn't about being brilliant or timing the market perfectly. It's about consistently not messing up. I love that quote.
It's so good. It takes the pressure off. It does.
It does. It's really about playing that long game, staying disciplined, and letting that compounding work its magic. Absolutely.
But it's not just starting early. There are some other elements to successful compounding. Right.
Absolutely. You have to reinvest your returns. Right.
Instead of spending those dividends or those interest payments, you let them ride. Let them compound. And that generates even more return over time.
And of course, trying to keep those fees and taxes low is important because they're eating into your gains over time. Yeah, that makes sense. So we've got starting early, reinvesting returns, and keeping fees low.
What else? Diversification is huge. Don't put all your eggs in one basket, right? Right. The classic advice.
The classic advice for a reason. Spreading those investments across different asset classes, stocks, bonds, real estate. That helps reduce your risk.
Makes sense. So we're diversifying, keeping the fees low, reinvesting those returns. Anything else? I'd say the most important element, managing your emotions.
Don't panic and sell when the market takes a dip or get caught up in the hype when it's soaring. It's a marathon, not a sprint. Exactly.
Slow and steady wins the race. Okay. Now, for something that really stuck with me, and it might ruffle a few feathers out there, Housel challenges our typical ideas of wealth with this statement.
He says, wealth is the nice cars not purchased, the diamonds not bought, the first class upgrade declined. He's totally flipping that, keeping up with the Joneses idea on its head. Totally.
He's shining a light on what he calls invisible wealth, which is the security and freedom you get from having assets you don't show off. Think of things like a healthy retirement account, a paid off mortgage, or a solid emergency fund. These aren't flashy Instagram posts, but they're the bedrock of real financial stability.
It is a powerful way of looking at it. It's not about the things you can show off. It's about the peace of mind and the options that come with having your finances in order.
Exactly. It ties back into that idea of delayed gratification. If you can resist the urge to spend every dollar you make, and you prioritize those long-term goals over the immediate wants, those are the folks that build lasting wealth.
It's like investing in your future self instead of always indulging your present self. Exactly. Not always easy, but definitely worth it.
100%. Now, let's talk about the ultimate goal, that holy grail of personal finance, financial freedom. Household sums it up perfectly.
He says, the highest form of wealth is the ability to wake up every morning and say, I can do whatever I want today. That's the dream. Not being stuck in a job you hate, not stressing about bills.
Having that freedom to choose how you spend your time and energy, that's true wealth to me. Absolutely. It's all about having options, not just stuff.
The ability to work because you want to, not because you have to. To travel, to chase those passions, spend time with loved ones, all without those financial constraints. And he reminds us that getting to that kind of freedom, it often comes down to making those smart choices, setting some reasonable financial goals.
He's not advocating for extreme wealth or deprivation. It's about finding that balance, enough to live comfortably and pursue your passions without constantly chasing more. Yeah, moderation is key.
You set those achievable goals and focus on what truly matters. That's way more sustainable and ultimately more fulfilling than always trying to reach some arbitrary level of wealth that never feels like enough. So true.
Now we've all heard, expect the unexpected, right? Oh, yeah. Well, Household takes that and applies it to personal finance. He says, the most important part of every plan is planning on your plan, not going according to plan.
He's all about flexibility, building that resilience into your financial life. Because, you know, life throws those curved balls, markets, they can be unpredictable. Things don't always go the way we want.
So it's not just about having a plan. It's about having a plan B, maybe even a plan C. Right. You've got to have strategies in place to handle those unexpected bumps in the road, like an emergency fund to cover those surprise expenses, diverse skills to help you be adaptable in the job market, and maybe even multiple income streams for a financial safety net.
It's about diversifying your life, just like you diversify your investments. Exactly. Here's another gem from Housel, few things matter more with money than understanding your own time horizon and not being persuaded by the actions and behaviors of people playing different games than you are.
He's talking about comparing ourselves to others, right? Which is so easy to do, especially with social media. Everybody's showing off their best selves. It's a surefire path to feeling discontent.
Housel, he reminds us that everybody's financial journey is different. What works for one person might be a disaster for another. Your goals, your risk tolerance, where you are in life, all these things shape your own financial path.
It's about focusing on your own lane and not getting distracted by what everybody else is doing. You got it. And that leads us to one of the most powerful concepts in the book, contentment.
Housel says there is no reason to risk what you have and need for what you don't have and don't need. It's so simple, but so often we miss it. We live in a culture that's always pushing us to want more, to strive for bigger and better.
But he's reminding us that there is a point where we can say enough is enough. Absolutely. It's about realizing when you have enough to live a good life, a fulfilling life, a comfortable life, and then shifting that focus from always getting more to appreciating what you already have.
Because, you know, at the end of the day, money is just a tool, right? It's a means to an end, not the end itself. Exactly. And ideally, that end is a life full of purpose, joy and connection.
Money can help with those things, but it doesn't guarantee it. True wealth, that comes from cultivating contentment, gratitude, strong relationships. Those are things you can't buy.
It's about finding that sweet spot. Yeah. You know, enjoying what you have now, but also being smart about the future, like working towards that financial security while still, you know, appreciating what we already have.
Yeah, totally. And House will actually give some really good tips for getting to that place of contentment. Like he talks about, you know, practicing gratitude, being thankful for what you've got.
Defining what enough means for you. Like what does a fulfilling life look like? Not for somebody else, for you. And, you know, focusing on those experiences, the relationships that really bring joy, not just the stuff.
Yeah. Shifting our mindset from I need more to I have enough. That's a big one.
It can be tough. It's a tough one, especially in a society that's, you know, telling us a bye bye bye all the time. All the time.
Now, we tend to think about risk in terms of our investments, right? Like the stock market crashing or real estate going crazy. Right. But Housel, he makes this really interesting point about taking risks with what we already have.
You know, like that secure job, that comfortable lifestyle. It's easy to just coast, stay in that comfort zone, even when it's not really doing it for us anymore. It's like the risk of not taking a risk.
Yeah. The risk of missing out on amazing opportunities because we're too scared to shake things up a bit. Housel, he reminds us, you know, growth and fulfillment.
Those often come from stepping outside that familiar zone, embracing a little uncertainty. He talks about, oh, what was that phrase? Reasonable irrationality. Yeah.
Yeah. Where, you know, taking calculated risks, even if they sound a bit crazy at the time, can lead to big rewards. Like quitting that soul crushing job to follow a passion project or investing in some out there idea that ends up being the next big thing.
Totally. You know, those kinds of decisions, they usually come with some emotional baggage, like fear of failing or what people will think, just, you know, that discomfort of the unknown. But Housel's argument is that learning to manage those emotions, not letting them hold us back, that's key for making bold moves and reaching our potential.
So it's not about being reckless. It's about being strategic. Exactly.
Right. Like weigh the pros and cons and make a choice that fits with our values and goals. A hundred percent.
And speaking of, you know, aligning decisions with our values. One thing that really hit me in the book was Housel's take on thinking long term. He really pushes us to make choices that benefit our future selves, even if it means giving up something we want right now.
He uses that great analogy about planting a tree. You don't plant it and expect to eating fruit from it tomorrow. You plant it knowing that it takes time, care, patience for it to really grow.
And it's the same with building wealth, a successful career or even meaningful relationships. It's playing that long game, making choices today that set us up for success and happiness years, even decades down the road. And that often means, you know, putting off what you want now and resisting those impulsive urges and keeping our eye on the big picture.
And it's not just about us thinking long term. Housel wants us to think about the legacy we leave behind, the impact we make on the world. He argues that real wealth isn't just about stacking up cash.
It's about using what we have to make something meaningful, something that lasts. Yeah, he talks about leaving the world a little better than we found it, whether that's through donating, investing in businesses that are sustainable or just being kind and generous in our everyday interactions. It's about recognizing that money can be a powerful tool for good.
Totally. And in the end, I think that's the most important lesson he leaves us with. Money's a means to an end, and that end should be a life that has purpose, meaning and connection.
So to kind of wrap up our Book Bytes discussion on the psychology of money, I think the key takeaway is financial success. It's not all about spreadsheets and strategies. It's about understanding ourselves, our emotions, our quirks, our values, and then making choices that really fit with what's important to us.
Yeah, it's about recognizing that money's a tool. And like any tool, it can be used for good or bad. The key is to use it wisely and with intention in a way that supports what we believe in and what we're working towards.
The psychology of money. It's a must read for anybody who wants to have a healthier, happier relationship with money. It's packed with wisdom and insights that go way beyond typical financial advice.
Trust me, you're going to be highlighting and dog-earing pages like crazy. Yeah, it'll change your perspective. If you liked this episode of Book Bytes, make sure you subscribe for more discussions on personal finance, business, all sorts of stuff.
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It really is about changing how we think about money. Not seeing it as the be-all and end-all, but as something that could help us create a better life. Yeah, exactly.
And Household, he actually offers some practical ways to shift that mindset. He talks about being grateful for what you have, practicing gratitude, and defining what does enough mean to you? Not to society or to your neighbor, but personally, what does it mean to you? And focusing on those experiences, those relationships that really make you happy, not just buying more stuff. Right, because that's not going to ultimately bring you that lasting happiness.
Exactly. It's a powerful message. And I think it's something a lot of people really need to hear, especially today.
It's like we're constantly bombarded with messages telling us, we need more, buy more, do more. It's exhausting. It is.
It is. So as we kind of wrap up our Book Bytes take on the psychology of money, I think the main takeaway is this. Financial success, it's not just about the numbers, the spreadsheets, the investing strategies.
It's about understanding ourselves, our emotions, our little quirks, our values, and then using that self-knowledge to make financial decisions that align with what we truly care about. Yeah. It's about recognizing that money, it's a tool.
And like any tool, it can be used for good or bad. The key is to wield it wisely, intentionally, and in a way that supports those values and goals that are meaningful to you. The psychology of money, if you haven't read it already, it's a must read for anyone who wants to develop a healthier, happier relationship with money.
It's just, it's packed with wisdom and insights that go way beyond the typical financial advice. I mean, you're going to be, like I said, you're going to be highlighting dog-earing pages like crazy. It's a game changer for sure.
It really is. It'll shift your perspective. If you enjoyed this episode of Book Bytes, be sure to subscribe for more insightful chats on personal finance, business, and really everything in between.
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